No clas BM turning something small into a three ring circus. BM's sister was suppose to drop the kids off at a mutual friend's daughter's birthday party. BM's car broke down so she text us to let u know her sister will drop them off an half an hour late. OK that should have been that right? NO she decided she wanted to come to the party to because its her friend too and her kids. So in her mind she can intrude on DH's parenting time because she is entitled to " of course". We could have just gritted our teeth and avoided her but she just has to come sit at our table. DH gives her a look of distaste and she loses it.

She ask DH what his deal is. He asked her not to do this here and whispered to me to move tables. We get up and BM jumps up. Asking DH what the deal is once more. We start walking outside. She follows us. Her skirt is exposing her under garments. DH tells her she should pull it down. She tells him to shut up he's just mad he can't get her ___ anymore. At this point we're thinking either she is drunk or on something. We ignore ignore and just go in and grab the kids. On the way out we see her crying to some woman she probably doesn't know. We got out before she noticed us leave.

On the ride home she is of course calling DH's phone crying about how she just wants to see her kids and how he's a jerk. She just wanted to spend more time with them blah blah blah. Well BM your the one who gave up full custody so don't start crying now. You had your weekend doesn't mean you can intrude on DH's time.

She literally just called again crying begging just to say good night to the kids. When she did she apologized for what daddy did and got the kids all sad and riled up so DH had to take the phone.

I feel bad for her she is obviously going through something. I just wish the kids didn't have to be in the middle of this. I wish young teens and adults who think of having kids but aren't really ready for them could see this. You don't just end up with kids you end up someones emotional tether ball and your stuck with them for the next 18 plus years and so is the next person you fall in love with.

This is just sad. Its hard for me as a supporting player on DH's team. Its crushing him to have to deal with this all the time.