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One step forward, two steps back + a idiot husband

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Submitted by winnie on Thu, 04/28/2011 - 10:48am

I think my husband is dumbass. One of the biggest dumbasses I have ever met. We went to see the broadway play "How to succeed in business without really trying". It had the young man from Harry Potter in it! It was a amazing experience. It was one of my dreams to see a show on Broadway but we never had the money. SS gave us the tickets. He got them from someone at work and I was extremely thankful. After the show we stayed the night at SS's apartment because it was late and it was a bit of a distance to drive home.

On Sunday, before we had to leave, my husband, for a reason I cannot understand, starts telling SS how badly his mother has been acting. I knew SS was getting upset and tried to tell my husband to stop. But kicking him under the table did not work. He keeps mouthing off. Something finally snaps in SS and he goes on about how my husband was not exactly a good father either. We left upset. I yelled at my husband. I could not help it. It has been very rocky with SS and we need to take it slow. My husband thought everything was fine between him and his son. I have no idea why he thought this. SS is extremely distant with my husband. Hell, he's nicer to me!

We have not heard from SS since. We were supposed to "Skype" yesterday but SS sent a email saying he was busy. If SS decides to avoid us and I am unable to see my precious granddaughter, I will be furious at my husband.

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Submitted by winnie on Thu, 04/28/2011 - 11:29am

Thank you! I was feeling guilty for yelling at my husband how I did. But I knew I had a reason to be angry. SS has seen the hate his mother creates first hand. He does not need to hear it from his father. Especially when he has made it clear before that he is very angry with his father.

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Submitted by winnie on Thu, 04/28/2011 - 12:28pm

My husband would not appreciate that. And I think I would be overstepping a bit. My husband loves his son very much. The legal system made our lives hell. We just could not afford to fight anymore. By then SS started getting very angry at us. I have no children of my own because I have not been able to. SS is the only person close to resembling my child. And his daughter is my only grandchild. I am just so upset and angry wih my husband. And I feel bad because I know he feels terrible too.

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Submitted by winnie on Thu, 04/28/2011 - 12:55pm

I KNOW! We do not even have SS's cell number. He is not giving it to anyone except for work people because of his bitch mother and her family. My husband apologised before we left and sent an email apologising. SS has quite a temper (when it is about us and his mother) and never forgets. I do not know how long this will last.

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Submitted by oneoffour on Thu, 04/28/2011 - 7:26pm

Leave a SKYPE messge for him. Something like .."Thank you again for the theatre tickets. It was so much fun. But I want to tell you I yelled at your father all the way home. He had no right to discuss your mother with you like that. When you are ready to talk again I am here and will not EVER let your father speak to you like that again. Give *g/daughters name* a hug from me. I hope I hear from you soon."

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Submitted by winnie on Fri, 04/29/2011 - 8:57am

Hi Katrinkie. It is definitely because my husband has a lot of hatred towards his ex-wife. She was the main reason he lost his relationship with his son. But like you said, venting about his ex-wife to SS was the stupidest idea I have ever seen. SS knows how his mother is. He does not need constant reminders. Can you imagine having a evil bitch for a mother? I think my husband assumed SS was angry with his mother too. He did not reaize his son was equally angry with him. I still have not heard from SS. I am so angry and upset. Even a few days after all this happened.