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GGGRRRRR. Am I wrong?

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I am so flipping mad right now! Quick background…DH and I have been together 10ish years…did not marry until 3ish years ago. (Did not want involved in the step crap). As soon as I thought the coast was clear, we married and lo and behold…SS moved in with us about 6 months later. He has lived with us for the last two years and went in military a few months ago.

DH and I rarely fight. And he got to a point where he had good boundries with BM.

tatum and Ryan

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I watched about 10-15 minutes of this yesterday. I had really expected to see a spoiled rotten, enabled, terror of a daughter and a saintly, miss understood Dad. I got this opinion from steptalk.

Anyway…I saw a daughter that IS craving attention, (any kind) but not really the troll I expected to see. I saw a Dad that is a messed up piece of crap! Sounds like he was a total creep back then and he seemed like a creep now. Did I just not watch enough?

OT

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I am so tired of actually trying to look good during this heat wave. I can spend 45 minutes to look spectacular for work, and then by the time I walk to my car in the morning, I look like a drowned rat. Flat hair, make up dripping or just sweated off completely.

Would you?

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DH is ticking me off. Just a little, but he will not bend to my way of thinking and it makes me grumpy. Lol. I want to know if I am being a coddling mother or not?

WWYD?

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Oh this will be fun. GRRR. When DH and I moved in together we always said that the kids could stay here for their two years of Community college as long as they worked part time also. I hate to say it, but I agreed because I thought that my son was going to go to 2 years of CC and then across state for the next two years. I also I thought SS would try to live with us and work retail for the rest of his life while living at home.

YAY!!!

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Lets all dance!!

SS passed the peepee test and is officially sworn in!! I can go camping now!! We tried one time while SS lived with us and it did not turn out well at all. So we have just been waiting until he was safely in the military. Now is that day!!!!! I think I may leave early, grab the hubby and the RV and go play on a lake somewhere near by. (If we can find one with water!!)

Don’t have to worry about SS not coming home, don’t have to worry about him bringing a nasty ho in my house. Don’t have to worry about his little gangsta friends.

How do I calm down and relax?

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Ok ladies…I need some calming advice.

SS was thrust into my home over a year and a half ago. He had serious issues…stealing, lying, fighting and all kids of other stuff. He was a little over 16. We got him off the ADD and ADHD drugs and he blossomed and matured. He still has issues but NOTHING like when he was younger. I WAS NEVER supposed to be custodial, so let me tell to try and never take for granted the every other weekend schedule.

Do you have feelings for the father of your child...? Or do you think your DH has feelings for the mother of his child.

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Do you ever think your DH has some strange deep feeling left over for BM? I sometimes do and it drives me crazy. Right now SS it trying to get DH BM and SS (and maybe his SD) to have a family day, a few months down the road. DH says he doesn’t want to do it, but will since SS (who is freaking 18) wants him too. Its all about SS don’t cha know. I won’t be there due to work.

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