My DH and I bought our current home about 3 years ago. He and BM have been divorced for about 10 years, he and I have been married about 5 years.

Just before this past Christmas we suddenly start getting mail addressed to BM's name at OUR address. The first couple of times I just rolled my eyes as I threw it in the trash. About the 5th piece of mail like this I got, I started getting pissed about it. I have very little interaction with BM and I like it that way! I don't want to see her name when I open my mail box. There's no logical reason why she should be getting mail here other than she's obviously put her name and our address on some form somewhere so that we start getting all this junk mail/advertisements addressed to her at our home.

I've been confined to the house this week after having a minor surgery a few days ago and received yet another piece of mail addressed to BM. So, I search the name she's using and it's suddenly connected somehow on the people finder type sites with DH, Me, and my SIL all in our current city which BM has NEVER lived in!

I wonder how BM is going to like it when she starts receiving mail at her house addressed to me? Starting with the Victoria Secret catalog! Any other suggestions? Anyone else get annoyed by what I realize is a trivial thing compared to the havoc BM's are capable of?