Getting to watch the karma bus run over BM and SO.

As sick and twisted as normal people would view my current feelings, I am actually giddy watching BM and SOs current situation.

Last year when OSD started acting out here. I was blamed and scapegoated by first BM and eventually SO because over time it was easier to blame me than except the truth.

Fast forward to today. OSD caused havoc at her Drs appointment seeking attention and validation that she is not the one with the problem it's everyone else who has the problem. So now both BM and SO are aggravated because of this. 

Then BM gets a phone call at work while she is meeting with her boss, it's OSD screaming and swearing at BM, because she got into a fight with YSD and OSD was throwing dishes at YSD and trashing her grandparents kitchen and is now in trouble with her grandparents and doesn't want to stay there.

BM has to leave work and pick up both the kids. She is now in trouble with her boss on top of being embarrassed and humiliated. She drops off YSD here and crying hysterically about how she can't take it anymore. OSD verbally abuses her, is physical with her and is completely defiant and disrespectful to her boyfriend and he has had enough.

SO says he feels sorry for her. I literally laughed and said I think it's fabulous! He was shocked by my response. I said why the hell would I ever feel sorry for the woman who created her own problems by ostricizing me and reinforcing OSDs behavior. The times she would come and pick up OSD from the house because I told OSD she had to wear clothes that covered her private areas in the house. Or when she would send me nasty texts accusing me of abusing OSD because I would turn the hot water off when OSD was in the shower for an hour and swearing at me because I told her her time was up and she needed to get out. 

He said he is stressed by OSDs behavior too and doesn't know what to do. I told him I don't feel sorry for him either! He could have supported me. Listened to the counselor and his advice. But NO, instead SO joined right in and was more than happy to blame me too. Because then it meant he didn't have to accept his baby girl was having behavior problems and he could continue to live in the land of denial and one day everything would magically be all better.

How did that work out for you pal?

 I then threw in one last dig by asking him to remember our very  first counseling appointment where both myself and the counselor predicted this very scenerio. Wow we must be psychic!!!