I walk in the door and SD12 has her school crap all over the computer desk and the surrounding area. DH and I need to do a little online bill pay and banking. When we finish, he asked her to pick up her mess! Probably, Just because it impacts him, as he will be gaming online later tonight. But oh well, he asked her to pick up after herself. It is a start.

I'm disengaged from sd12, so somebody please tell me why I am currently sitting in a school parking lot waiting for volleyball practice to end. Because I'm week I guess, or just a peace keeper tired of arguing with her husband. least he promised he would clean the kitchen while I was gone. And I got to smoke a cigs, hubs still doesn't know I started again.

Just got home, kitchen and dining room are spotless!

I'm struggling with disengaging. Not because I feel inclined to step in any longer and handle things, I'm very much soooo over that. See my last blog a few weeks ago about the ice cream incident, that was pretty much the straw that broke the camel's back.

So I'm sitting here at work waiting for any word on how SD12 is doing at her volleyball tournament. They have been there 5 hours and not one text with an update. So I text DH and ask him how things are going. 10 min later... waiting for a response. 20 min... nothing yet. 30 min later... still nothing. He keeps that damn thing glued to his hand, so now I'm getting pissed. BM wasn't at the volleyball tournament last weekend for part of the time but she kept texting him asking for updates, like constantly texting him.