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Not step related...venting about DH

Where2Begin's picture

On 9/17 DH sent me an email at work telling me about some upcoming things going...poker night, SD11s ball game, and he mentioned 2 work related trips coming up in October. He has to travel a few days for work about once ever 3 or 4 months. I confess I did not put his travel dates on my calendar right then.

Around 10am this morning I get a call at work from DH. He said, "I just wanted to let you know I made it." My first reaction was "made it where???" but as soon as it was out of my mouth I knew he must be on a trip. The thing is, he never mentioned this trip to me at all this weekend. Didn't ask if I could take the dog to the vet since he would be out-of-town...he had tried to get her in this weekend but her test results weren't back from their lab yet. Didn't say a thing about it last night before going to bed, didn't pack last night, didn't say a thing about it when he woke me just enough to give me a kiss, as he does every morning before he leaves for work....didn't say "I'll see you ond Wed. evening"....no "i'm on flight xxx, staying at Hotel xxx" nothing....

Am I wrong to be pissed about this??? I'm so frustrated with his lack (or poor at best) of communicaton....

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DealinWithTheDevil's picture

You and only you know the routine of your husband. Others can tell you exactly what they feel, but only you know what is weird for him.

Go with your gut.

Why would he not tell you ahead of time? have you guys been fighting?Was there a knock down drag out this past wk? Even so, why would he pack behind your back? This is all very odd, I hate to tell you what i think, but you might want to check in with the buisness trip and find out how much of it is actually buisness.