I've been a member of this blog for a little over a week now, and everyday I seem to have something to bring to the table regarding SD14 and DH.

If you're familar with my story you know that little Klepto (SD) moved with BM about 5wks ago, and has been back with us for the last week Well she's supposed to go back to BM's tomorrow, so I made it my business to pack the rest of her belongings that she inconspicuously decided to leave behind when she left. Yesterday evening DH and myself took BS8 & BD3 with us to do a little baby shopping...of course SD doesn't want any parts of it because it doesn't involve her being showered with anything. When we get back in she's in the bathroom upstairs blow drying her hair, so I didn't notice until this morning that the cap from my Carol's Daughter Shampoo (Not sure any of you are familiar with that brand, but it's a bit pricey)was sitting on the edge of the sink. I keep those particular products in a separate room so no one uses them. I look around for the bottle and lo and behold it's laying on the floor next to the toilet.....empty! We literally have 4 different bottles of shampoo in the bathroom she showered in, and she knows this being as though she lived here, but nooooo she had to have my sh*t!

Of course I'm pissed! It's not about the shampoo. but the principal of the matter. Why can't she just ask for things? Something told me to go into the room where her bags were and check her bags since she washed and repacked the clothes I'd packed, and she also decided to pack my flat irons, her choice of BD3's headbands, a bottle of my body spray, a cell phone charger (not sure if it was mine or DH's), and a few of my bracelets.

I bring this to DH's attention through text since he's at work, and his response is, "I'll replace the shampoo, and talk to her about leaving it on the floor."....huh?

So I say, "It's not about the shampoo. It's about your child taking things that does not belong to her. That is not ok, and why can't you see this? I know it's little things now, but whose to say it will not grow into something bigger."

and he says defensively, "Well it seems that she only took or used things that she needed. You know her mother isn't going to get her those things, so she's basically on her own. How much yelling at her can I do." First of all she made the decision to leave and move back with her mother (and I'm not mad at her for that

I told him, "I don't give a damn about what her mother does. YOUR KID HAS A PROBLEM.....DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!"

His response..."I'll buy her her own things so this doesn't happen again."

I give up.....F*ck it! He doesn't get it....or does he, and just doesn't want to deal with the problem?