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turtle76's picture

Hubby recently has had some health problems. We told stepson 17 about it 6 days ago. I jokingly said hopefully nothing else happens and all his tests come back okay, but if it gets to a point where he is dribbling and I have to wipe his butt that stepson will have to do it!! I was laughing while saying it... Stepson is very lazy, doesn't go to school and only works here and there before he quits. His so called mother has been buying him alcohol since he was 14, getting their tongues pierced together, tattoos together, drinking and doing shots together and filming it and putting on Facebook. You know the typical thing all good mums do with their children... My stepson now has around 8 tattoos. They are large and his mother arranges the tattooist to come to their house.

She recently abused the crap out of me calling me names and telling me she hates the way I treat her son. Today we get told she told someone my hubby at a heart attack. Hubby text her saying he didn't have a heart attack you fucking moron and she should mind her own business...

Well she fired back with abuse saying he was a good man until he met me and that I'm nothing but a fat cow and he is the moron for marrying me. She said she is worried about him because she cares ( she had an affair and left him). She said we need to grow up and start thinking about stepson and hubby's 28 year old daughter ( from a different relationship).... She said stepson is worried about him and that I am nasty for saying it would be stepsons job to look after his dad and wipe his butt...

She also tried to call but we didn't answer. We haven't responded to her. She does this every time we stick up for ourselves. If we were telling people about her ripping off her brother on his death bed etc I'm sure she wouldn't like it. I am a good person and it hurts to think she is turning stepson away from me. We have always had a pretty good relationship except for normal kid stuff they get in trouble for,,,,

I hate this bitch. She should never have been allowed to reproduce. I am childless and if trying to discipline and teach a kid morals and values to be a productive member of his community when he is 18 is wrong then OMG....

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turtle76's picture

Oh and stepson has been so worried he hasn't come round or called to see how his father is since we told him.... But hey he is worried... She has continued sending messages all night. Even started the abuse to my phone. Hubby text back and told her unless stepson hurt or in trouble we didn't want her to contact us. The last message of about 10 says hubby and I will now miss out on a loving son whom we should be proud of. We have ignored her. We did not say we didn't want stepson in our lives just her... Twisting words as usual...

Disneyfan's picture

Your husband started this round of crazy by texting her and calling her a fucking moron. All because someone said she he had a heart attack. :? What adult reacts that way to he said she said crap?

He opened the door and invited crazy in. Now you're angry at mom for accepting his invitation.

RainbowsAndDaisies's picture

It's inappropriate to joke to a 17 year old boy about hhis father becoming so ill that he cannot wipe himself. All three adults behaved poorly.

turtle76's picture

So it's ok for her to constantly abuse and call names but on the rare occasion we retaliate.... We are the inappropriate ones. Obviously you people don't have to deal with a BM that is horrible like her. She is so nasty, being called a moron is about different to the tirade of abuse she gave. You have no idea what we have dealt with over the past 11 years... It wears you down eventually to the point where u do react.... I thought this site was for support.... Pfft

turtle76's picture

What is it with some of these BM? In the beginning she was nice to me. Up until hubby and I got engaged. She tells people in our small town that I was nice until we got married. I haven't changed. I think the problem is her being extremely jealous that DH married me but never her!!!!! Bummer that you only get to renew the restraining order one more time. Why is that? I would think that if you were being harassed it would be ongoing.