What to do?
Time to vent. What do you do when DH's family thinks my SS is just great? SS took items from his grandmother's house. When I gave her the items back, she said she thought she just lost them and acted like there was nothing wrong with him taking things from her house. Grandfather thinks he is the greatest kid in the world. My DH's father had the nerve to tell me a story about how his Uncle's SM pushed his uncle down the steps and broke his leg. He knows that I do not care much for my SS, but I can't believe he would tell me this and think that I would physically hurt my SS. Maybe I should ask him why he was an alcoholic and hurt his children when they were growing up. I can't believe how much I put up with and I'm getting to the point where I'm about done with all of them. I know we all put up with so much, and I feel for all of you. I pray everyday for the strength to make it through another day and just have to keep thinking about how much I love my own children.
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Not really, he talk to SS
Not really, he talk to SS about it, but no real punishment. Like always I was told to calm down and stop over reacting about everything.
Oh yes, we overreact to
Oh yes, we overreact to anything naughty that the Golden Skids could ever do wrong. I bet when SS6 got suspended from school he didn't get much discipline from BM, never does, and he's not with us enough right now for us to do it. Tough situation, it really is. One day all these enabling adults will open their eyes to skids, and skids can open their eyes to real life!
What do you do when DH's
What do you do when DH's family thinks my SS is just great?
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Nothing. They will figure it out, or they won't. If you try to force them to see the issues, it will back fire on you. I am sure they already know, but as a Gparent they don't want to see.
What I do is stay the hell
What I do is stay the hell away from them. My dh's family thinks ss13 is some innocent little victim-when truthfully he is violent, pot smoking, thieving, firestarting creep. IMO-they do not recognize his dysfunction because they are so freaking dysfunctional themselves.