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Why should I the step mom support his lazy children when they do NOTHING...is it wrong to feel this way?.?.?

tryingtomakeit's picture

So we got out income taz done a week or so ago. This week my husband informed me that he thinks he is going on just give my sd our income tax money for a school trip in the summer. I was shocked and pissed.

First and foremost, the people that are going on the trip know about the trip and the cost a year in advance, the parents and children also have fundraisers to cut the cost of the trip.

Well, my sd has not done the first thing to earn her money for her trip. Me, the stepmother has done more than her father and I am married to him.

This morning he was informed that the group was having a fundraiser on Saturday, well dad has to work and step mom has made plans. I could have changed my plans had I known in advance, but the sd and mother seem to only have a brain that thinks 2 days in advance. Thats enough planning for them .

Well, my husband feeling bad he could attend told me he wanted to give the sd our whole income tax check to her to pay for her trip. I went off. I told him he could use some of it, but I contributed to te family just like he did and his sd was not getting all the tax money that I plan to use some of it to pay off medical bills!

I am pissed off because they dont that that little bratty child who is 14 lifet a finger and Im not going to work my butt off so she can do nothing.

GRRRRRRRRRR

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beyond pissed-off's picture

Clearly the trip is not that important to either SD or her mother. I think the $ should be used for a trip for the 2 of you together - not a spoiled SD who can not be bothered to contribute or participate in fundraisers. Besides, where is her MOTHER on Saturday????

purpledaisies's picture

I wouldn't let him have a penny for that trip! just b/c of the crap taht is surrounding it! I'd refuse especially since the money you will have left will go to bills! That would piss me off that he wants to spend money for that is unnecessary and you want to spend it on bills! I'd gell him to stick where the sun don;t shine!

planningMyEscape's picture

No way would I let him give her any of the money. Especially if you have medical bills that need to be paid off. I can't believe he'd even think of suggesting that!!!