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The ex texted my husband and it said "I wished you lived closer"...excuse me Do I have a right to be a little pee'ed?

tryingtomakeit's picture

Ok, this happens a lot. But last night the ex sent my husand a text that said " I wished you loved closer, I am sick. Sd had gymnastics.

This really irrated me really bad. To the point where by the nend of the night my husband and I were not speaking.

1.) We moved 45 minutes away due to work...we had to. I do not like her putting a quilt trip on my husband. (He doesnt see it that way.)

2.) The practice lasts for three hours. The ex is married and has a son that is 23 years old (who is a leach). Could she not have ask them first before she text and whined to my husband.

3.) My husband went and I stayed at home. The bitch had mono...! I didnt want to be around that crap.

Then when my husband gets home. He starts throwing crap in my face about how I act differently when the sd comes around and all this bullshit.

Disclamer...I am not pissed that he took his daughter to gymanstics (He should do that) I am pissed at how it went down. The ex should have just text and asked, "Can you take sd to _____? We didt need the pitty party.

GRRRRRR. What a bitch! And by the way my husband has no balls for not telling her that! GRRRRRR

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tryingtomakeit's picture

Me too! I bet she is still working and doing her other activities! She probably didnt want to put up with her own daughter!

DaizyDuke's picture

BM#2 played this crap when we bought a new house last year about 30 minutes away from her and SS13. Prior to that, she would call DH all the time, whenever she had a hair appt. or broke a nail or had to take a crap or something and ask him to pick up SS13 from school or take him to a Dr.s appt or what have you. I mean ALL. THE. TIME!

Well when we moved, DH told her no more, that he was obviously not going to be able to come running at the drop of a hat when BM called. Sure enough, I swear to God, we had been in our new house TWO days, and she was calling asking DH to get SS after school for some dumb reason. DH did, but made it clear that she better get some other back up person, or teach SS13 how to ride the bus home. Miraculously that was the last time she did it.

BUT she throws it in DH face every chance she gets and of course DH drinks the Koolaid and will say things like, "I feel bad that we live farther away from SS now, we used to be so close, he's bored at BMs, it's all my fault he's acting out, blah freakity, blah, boo freakity hoo" The only reason they were "close" was because BM forced DH hand by making him her personal babysitter and taxi driver. And sorry, but MY life and where MY family lives will NOT revolve around whatever apartment some skank ass loser happens to be living in.

htchc4190's picture

Yea... That is definitely not right..
If that would have been my husband, I'd definitely kicking both DH and his dear BM ass.. That is unacceptable to me.

justanothergurlNJ's picture

If it is not about the kid, there is NO reason to talk. I agree it should have been said like this. Can you please take SD to __________, no need for your sob stories about him moving! DEAL BITCH!