BM calls 2-3xs a week to talk to her boys. She has not seen them.since July.2010. She doesn't help financially..I had to bug her to send.school supply money. Basically all she does as a parent is call on the phone. I think it does more damage. Why call if u can't do anything as a parent??? To me if I was SS9 I would feel sad if I talked to BM but never saw her. But then again he's never been with her for.more than a couple months. Maybe he doesn't have that connection to her. I'm just sick of her calling. I want to bill her for being a mom and send her an itemized invoice of everything I do because she is too busy living her life with her man and her other kids in California.