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Jeckyl and Hyde???

Topmuffin901's picture

Submitted by Topmuffin901 on Wed, 10/23/2013 - 5:10am

So after giving BM *crickets* to her rambling letter about why she won't be allowing DH to have SS anymore time over christmas I think it made her insecurities and paranoia go into overdrive. When DH collected SS from school yesterday BM was there (I honestly thought there was going to be ww3) she came over to me and DH and APOLOGISED for the rambling letter. Her excuse is she has a lot of problems right now and didn't feel well when she wrote it (ok BM just because you feel crap doesn't mean you can break a co). She said she would like to come to some compromise over christmas and be more amicable with eachother. Me and DH both stood there and said nothing. DH then said "come on SS it's time to go". BM's face was priceless. I guess giving *crickets* works because she also said she didn't want to go back to court even though we havent mentioned court as we can't afford to at the moment. Think someone has been laid awake paranoid. DH sent an email last night basically saying that while he appreciates her apology she isn't to approach him again. The only form of communication acceptable is email and if she is agreeing to stay amicable she needs to let him know via email the extra days DH can have SS during the christmas holidays. I'm so fed up of this womans 2 different personalities. One minute shes crazy mcloon the next she wants to be 'amicable'. I just don't get it. Don't worry though me and DH aren't falling for it. I'm sure the crazy train will be picking her up again next week and then it's bye bye to miss amicable.

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Submitted by Bojangles on Wed, 10/23/2013 - 6:54am

Now just for a moment there, because I'm quite soft, I felt sorry for BM meeting with silence to her apology outside the gates. Then I remembered the number of times over the years that the BM in my case has waxed lyrical about how it's all about the children and what's best for them, and then done something sly, manipulative or plain mad. It can be hard to accept that some people just don't operate within the same boundaries of reasonable behaviour.

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Submitted by Topmuffin901 on Wed, 10/23/2013 - 8:04am

She's definately not one to feel sorry for. There's no apology that would Be acceptable for her behaviour over the years

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Submitted by QueenBeau on Wed, 10/23/2013 - 8:25am

SD's BM is the same way. She will flip out for like 6 months & then try to be 'nice' for a week & wonder why DH still hates her. She calls this being the bigger person. Actually, you don't have to be the bigger person or the smaller person. Follow the court order & dont' contact DH or me.