My grown daughter (she's 33) saw me unloading the dishwasher yesterday that Chef had loaded. And in this case it wasn't one of the worst dishwasher loading jobs that Chef has done (I have photos!)

She looked at it horrified and said to me: "Can't you teach him how to load a dishwasher?" I said "It's pointless; you can't teach Chef anything."

So she walked over to Chef and said "Chef, when you load a dishwasher, the dishes have to be facing the sprayer!"

Chef: "Why are they still dirty?"
BD: "They will be if they aren't facing the sprayer"
Chef: "That's ok, we don't pay for water anyway" (which is a falsehood, we're on a well, but we still have to pay the electric to pump the well water and the salt to put in the softner and the detergent)
BD: "Yes but thats a lot of extra effort."
Chef: "That's ok."

Chef is ALWAYS telling his co-workers to do the job right the first time.

Chef "helped" me clean while I was out T day shopping on Wednesday. Come to find out he put all his junky tools and supplies that he was using to work on the laundry room (which STILL isn't done btw) on the STEPS THAT LEAD TO THE 2ND FLOOR OF THE GARAGE WHERE ALL MY CHRISTMAS DECORATION ARE!!

So once again, if it isn't a direct problem for Chef, then everyone (me) needs to just suck it up and deal with it (eyeroll)