The birth "mom" of my two step daughters has emailed me demanding that my Husband call her because she is going to take the girls to San Diego for the whole summer!!!

HA HA HA HA

This chick is down right disillusion. She lost custody because she kidnapped our two daughters when they were babies. My husband had to sell is car and use all of his savings to hire a private detective and he had to travel to where he found out she moved to, to get his kids back. It took a whole tortuous year of not knowing if our daughters were ok to find them and bring them home.

The birth mom has been confrontational, erratic, vindictive, hateful and mean spirit to myself and my husband. She has put our daughters through so much emotional torment. She cursed me out in front of our daughter in their class room that was full of parents, class mates and a teacher.

She has bounced in and out of their lives when ever and how ever she wants. She is in no way accountable for any part of our daughters lives. She does not contribute time or money to their growth or well being. Because of all of this, both of my stepdaughters suffer from abandonment issues. But it has affected my youngest the worst.

She bareley see's them at all! Maybe two to three weekends out of the year. And the visits are always stressful for everyone involved. Every time she has a visit, she makes decisions like someone that is 15 years old instead of someone that is an adult with Children!!

In the past 7 or 8 years alone, she has moved about 7 times and changed her home phone number about 20 times!! She never tells myself or my husband that she has moved. She never gives us her phone number. We only find out because our 9 year old tells us so. The birth mom is so freaking immature!!!

What in the world would make this crazy ass woman think that we or even my husband by himself would trust our children with her for an entire summer?!?

:jawdrop: :O :? :sick:

As usual her behavior is so ridiculous that it is hilarious....