So I ended up going with OSS on his field trip of course he was calling BM every hour LOL. I noticed that SS is total isolates himself from the other kids. I asked him if he was going to play with his friends. He said I don't have any friends. After the field trip was over SS wanted to show me the inside of their house and I heard BM on the phone telling SS that I was welcome to come over to their house anytime. I am thinking it is really bizarre that BM is being this nice. I think she either wants something or she is just trying to make DH and I look bad since she is not allowed to come over or is not allowed to step foot inside our house after several incidents that have occurred. I politely declined and told SS that I would just drop him off at the drive way and left as quickly as I could. I went home and told DH what was going on with SS and told him that he needs to talk to the school and show them the CO to find out what is going on with him instead of trying to find out from BM since she is secretive when it comes to stuff like this. Both of my skids have a lot of problems that could be prevented if DH would've grew a backbone instead of letting BM raise them the way she thinks is best.