So far DH has been ignoring BM and she hasn't texted or called him since the band concert incident but, it's quiet for about a week and then she starts up again. You would think BM would learn that she can't have everything her way. This summer is going to be interesting when she realizes that she won't be "stopping" by because the kids want junk food or because they left something at her house or they need her. Because it is DH's time with his kids and he can handle being a parent on his own without the "world's best coddler". We will see if DH sticks to his guns!