Last time we had SS, I was watching him at MIL and BM asked if she could come over and of course my SO said yes, because he always says yes not thinking of how unbearably akward it becomes for me. She (BM) came by glared at me the entire time without saying a word, spent a few seconds with SS and then left. Nothing more was said til about an hour later I was getting ready to take my BS out to lunch with my family while letting my SS spend some time with SO's family. As I get into my car a cop gets out of his car which is parked across the street. He walked up to my car door and asked if my BS was my SS and if he wasn't with me where he was, I said he was asleep in the house for a nap. Then I realized what was going on the stupid ***** called a welfare check on her child because he was with me and she was upset. After coming to the house and seeing the child was in no danger. Things like this have been going on and on since I have gotten with my SO and I'm tired of this. There has been times she has called and texted my SO until 2 in the morning explaining what a bad dad he is and how horrible he treats his son. Quite frankly I'm done and it has nothing to do with my poor SS who is caught in the middle because he is a very sweet child but I can not deal with the BM I have decided to take a break from being there during his visits and feel bad for doing it but I can not build a good relationship with my SS until his mom calms down about things? Am I wrong to feel this way? :?