Therapy
We have started BS7 in therapy again to help him deal with the divorce. Went with ex husband. Holy F is all I have to say. In front of BS he used it as an opportunity to say that I had him arrested, made sure he had limited time with BS and that he didn't trust me.
Both therapist and I told him NOT to say those things infront of BS so now we are scheduled for a private meeting. Lucky me... I get to pay to spend time hearing that asshole lie and rewrite history. He is also lobbying for time during the week. Therapist pointed out that since it is in the decree that he doesn't we would have to go back to court to have that changed. He didn't like that very much.
On the bright side, my friend is coming home this weekend and we are going out Saturday. I am really excited to see him again. He is so sweet and supportive of all the crap ex puts me through. The man has never had kids but totally gets it because his mom divorced when he was 10 so he was the kid. He calls every night when he is on the road and is really such a great friend.
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BS is going to go once a week
BS is going to go once a week for a while. I am wondering what that ahole said to BS when he brought him back to school.
It is really nice to have the support that my friend gives me. He likes me a lot, but knows that he can't rush me. He is okay with it. Truth be told I really like him. He is a good man.
It's not too early to get
It's not too early to get your son watching Welcome Back Pluto and you to read Divorce Poison, if you haven't already. Maybe loan it to the therapist as well. Your BS is going to need all the support he can get if AHX (asshole ex) is willing to go that far right in FRONT of you AND the therapist!
I saw my therapist today, and
I saw my therapist today, and she advised me to let BS's therapist be the bad guy with ex. She also said that I didn't need to get to much into our history that Ex would show that through his actions.
On the plus side BS slept in his own bed and his behavior was great! I implemented what I learned yesterday.
I will pick up divorce poison and start reading it. Trust me I have 11 more years on this prison sentence, there will be no time off for good behavior.