So...this is some good news. BMH is deployed so BM had two online sessions with SD alone. The most recent one, BM referred her husband as "daddy (first name". WOW! So thing is good, but I can't help to wonder what changed her mind. It's hard to believe that she realized what her and her husband were doing was wrong. So it's hard to take it as it is. I haven't really asked FH what he thought of it. He was suppose to email her about it, but of course, never did. So I guess there's no reason now to bring it up.