Our DD tested positive for covid this weekend. We were testing in anticipation of our first trip in two years. The same day we tested, we got an email about an outbreak at her daycare. We were shocked that she was positive because she has virtually no symptoms (she is still only slightly congested). We had to tell BM because SSs were with us on the day she tested positive. SSs are with MIL and have been since Saturday. They have all been testing daily and are negative. BM has sent five messages. To summarize: 

1) She demands to know if the at home test was a true positive and tells DH that skids better not get sick from being exposed to "your daughter". She gets no response to this one. DD has since had a PCR that confirmed her positive status, but also the at home test went positive almost immediately, so I knew it was correct. Also, there have been cases at skids schools and they have stayed home sick and then still come to our house. Not to mention that BM went on a "business trip", coming home three days before our DD was born, didn't tell DH anything about that and then insisted that skids be allowed to see their newborn sister, so really, I think she's just lucky they didn't bring covid into our house. Skids also socialize without masks and have throughout the pandemic, so again, not as if BM has been managing risks.

2) She demanded to know how much contact skids had with DD. DH responded to this one and said they had spent time with DD on Saturday and she rode in the car with them to MIL's house. Both happened before we tested and discovered she was positive.

3) She demanded an update on DD's testing and symptoms. She also told him she was mad that she hadn't received any response from "your family" on the status of skids. No response because DD's health is none of her business. Also, she made arrangements with MIL herself without consulting with DH, so he won't be the messenger for MIL.

4) She sent a message saying that DH never told her he was not traveling, so she didn't feel comfortable with skids spending new year's with him because we might be traveling. No response on this one because a) of course we aren't traveling with our covid positive child! BM has traveled all over, including going to a concert near us that was a super spreader event and she never cleared her travel with DH first or told him that she'd traveled or might have been exposed. BM also had a house full of people on thanksgiving and one SS traveled and then took a sick day, but nothing was said to us when he came to our house days later.

5) She sent a message saying she didn't want skids coming to our house for new year's if we were positive. DH responded and said he would send an update closer to New Years and wouldn't take skids if any of us had covid. Seriously, we're not that selfish BM. If we have covid, we'll continue to isolate. I'm sure if we don't take them, there will be a flurry of messages about how DH owes BM money because she had to cancel her new year's plans because DH didn't take skids (even though she's said she didn't want them coming to her house if we have covid).

Please send positive vibes that SKids do not get covid because I do not want to hear about how BM had to change all of her Christmas plans because our DD got covid...as if we somehow gave her covid on purpose to ruin BM's plans...