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UGH I get my husband at HOME 1 week and BM ruins our only night together

Stick's picture

Submitted by Stick on Sat, 09/12/2009 - 4:25am

I'm so angry and frustrated I could cry... or scream. Notice I am writing this at 5:23am.

I can't even get into it all... Although I will just say that BM made SD so upset the poor girl was sobbing; and that DH spent, literally, 3-1/2 hours on the phone with BM trying to get her stupid ass to understand WHY she made her daughter cry.

The 3-1/2 hours spent during "our time" was something that had to happen. BM had to be told a bunch of stuff and I'm glad that DH did it. So I'm fully in support of DH just finally letting it all loose on BM.

I'll write more later, I guess... If I can...or maybe not. I just don't know.

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misguided's picture

Submitted by misguided on Sat, 09/12/2009 - 7:45am

Do these psychos ever stop. I am so sorry that happened but at least your both on the same page and it's great you can be supportive even though it cuts into your time. I hope you got back to sleep and today is better.

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Submitted by Selkie on Sat, 09/12/2009 - 7:48am

That really sucks for you. Hopefully the stolen time will be worth something. Sounds like he had a lot to say! Won't be much longer until he's home again now, will it? I'm thinking about you.

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Submitted by Most Evil on Sat, 09/12/2009 - 8:48am

It has got to be hard that you are apart so much. But I am glad he is explaining and setting limits to BM if she needs it. I hope you get some quality time this weekend!! Smile
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Submitted by PnutButta on Sat, 09/12/2009 - 9:47am

That just sucks. At least he told her some stuff, but it's sad it had to happen at the expense of your time together.

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Submitted by AllSmiles on Sat, 09/12/2009 - 10:14am

So sad for the little girl. Good thing she has you for a role model. Smile

"Courage is fear holding on a minute longer." General George S. Patton

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Submitted by belleboudeuse on Sat, 09/12/2009 - 5:07pm

Sometimes I think psycho BMs have a little interior meter that goes off whenever their ex and his SO are having too nice of a time, so they can quickly invent some B.S. drama to wreck it all. God, it gets SOOOOO old having to have some freak of a woman smack dab in the middle of your marriage, doesn't it?

Stick, I'm glad your DH called her out, and I'm sure she needed it, as you said. I hope you and your H managed to get some together time this mornings. (My DH and I often wake up early on weekend mornings when we have the kids so we can have some "quiet time" in the bedroom -- IF ya know what I mean! Wink

Hang in there, girl. SD is lucky he has you.

BB

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