I did not drive my ss16 to school yesterday after he slept in. I was taking a shower while he was supposed to be getting up and then came downstairs to make myself lunch and breakfast. I still had to ya know, do my hair and makeup and was not leaving for 20 more minutes when he came down all groggy and asked for a ride to school. I said no, and he went out the door and walked to school. It's only 2.5 miles but he was late for his first class. Dh got a call last evening from the school letting him know ss was late and asked ss why and ss said sterling wouldn't give me a ride so I walked. I just sat there waiting for the storm but dh didn't say anything to me instead he told ss to turn up the volume on his phone and to not let it happen again. This morning on my way to the shower I didn't hear anything from ss's room, told dh and dh went in there and ss was still snoring. Not sure what dh is going to do but it felt good disengaging and not having dh all over my ass about it. I think dh is finally getting that ss is not my kid and not my problem and I am civil but sure as hell don't always need to be nice. I am just enduring until he's out the door for the last time. lol (does that ever happen??? )