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update to bd19 getting married....

stepsonhatesme's picture

She had informed me today that they plan to get married on Oct 20, or as she told me sweetest day. This is a sat so I wanted to know who is going to marry them, when they are going to get their license. Well come to find out they want ME to marry them, and they still don't know when they are going to get the license. As it will show up in the paper, and they apparently don't want his parents to know or my grandparents. I don't agree with this. I told her that I don't think they should bee rushing into this and they should wait a while. I asked her why they wanted to rush, there is no reason...
She said that she would talk to her bf and see what he says. About maybe waiting.
I told her that dad ( my DH) isn't happy about them rushingand wants them to wait...as we both agree with this.
I just don't know what else to tell her. Its worse now that she asked me to do the wedding.

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Purplemom's picture

Perhaps you can get them to compromise in some way? Maybe say that you will do the wedding and help plan something that they won't feel they need to hide after they do X amount of premarital counseling?