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Sperm Donor lies AGAIN

stepsonhatesme's picture

My BS17(almost 18) has told me he wants to go to homecoming. Not with his girlfriend, but with this other girl, who used to be my daughters friend. Homecoming is next sat. night. He needs pants, tie, shirt, flowers and $$ for tickets all of this is going to be more that $75. I told him that we dont have the money. I told him to ask his dad aka sperm donor.
BS told me that his dad cant help b/c he has to pay $1100 to get his license back after he takes a 8 hr class. The whole reason he lost his license is due to non payment of child support. (I dont think you can get them back like this if you lost them for that reason).

I guess sperm donor also told him that when he turns 18 he can move in with him. So BS has told me that the night before he turns 18 he is packing all his clothes,and stuff and at 12 midnight, he is walking out. AND dropping out of school.

I told him that if he drops out he cannot live here. If he stays in school he can stay here.

He refuses to help out around the house or do anything to help anyone except himself, so honestly I cant wait for him to turn 18 and leave.

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Most Evil's picture

Oooh gosh, I bet you are so upset!!!! about this. This just sounds like total teen fighting for 'independence', and of course is shooting his own self in the foot.

The tough thing is that you really can't give in on this or you set yourself up for more of the same.

I guess you will just have to watch him make his own (crazy) choices, and then try to help him when they inevitably fall apart.

There really seems to be no other way here! KUDOS for standing strong and upholding the standard and expectation that he do the right thing, and is not the center of the universe!!

That is the best parenting lesson you can give him!!!!!!! HUGS