BM's ridiculous text-a-thon to fiance's non-working phone!
Again, BM refuses to do anything with her children because it could be "hard". I am sooo sick of her and her dumb excuses not to be a parent.
We found out this morning that BM was trying to contact my fiance this weekend. The housing for his phone charger is broken so he couldn't charge his cell, which he didn't think was a big deal for the weekend since everyone we know has my number and uses it often if they can't get in touch with him for whatever reason. Same with BM...and it was BM's weekend with the kids and she NEVER contacts us on her weekends. This morning, DF borrowed a coworker's battery and was able to turn on his phone and got a barrage of texts from BM left over from the weekend. He forwarded them to me because they are ridiculous:
Friday evening: "I need you to take Son sometime this weekend for a few hours so I can take Daughter school shopping."
Saturday am: "Did you get my text? I need you to take Son this wknd for Daughter school shopping"
Saturday afternoon: "Obviously you are just being a jerk. Really need you to get ahold of me."
Saturday evening: "WTF."
Sunday am: "Obv u don't care to see ur son."
Sunday late am: "Wow."
Sunday afternoon: "I really can't handle taking both kids shopping with me and would really APPRECIATE if you'd take your son for a few hours. Thx."
Sunday pm: "Thx alot."
Sunday late: "Father of the year."
I can't BELEIVE her. Obviously she could try to pick up the phone and DIAL his number, find out it went to voicemail (which he had NONE) and LEFT him one, which he would have gotten because he was checking those through my phone. Or wait! She could have sent a text to MY phone and it would have been covered! Once again, absolutely NO logic in this chick....however she chooses to be stupid and then she blames others, thinking that she's the victim and that the world is against her.
But the OTHER point is, she spent more time/stress dealing with those texts and was obviously frazzled about it...and she could have just taken both kids shopping (like I do all the time) and been a PARENT.
PS. I just found out through the glories of Facebook that she and her boyfriend broke up. She must have been searching for a way to escape parenthood this weekend so she could wallow in self-pity.
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however she chooses to be
however she chooses to be stupid and then she blames others, thinking that she's the victim and that the world is against her. ----
We had this happen recently...bm was getting in an airplane and an hour before she starts calling and texting. Both fh and I have jobs where we can't answer calls or text frequently. Meaning we don't always have our phones with us, usually we can reply around the hour or more. Anyway, she left both of us nasty text and voice mail! I called her back when I got off work and she started yelling at me. She then hung up on me. Later, I called her and left a voice message telling her she was the cause of her own stress because had she planned ahead and called yeti infirm us a few days before she was leaving in an airplane we would have insured we would have been available with the kids so she could say goodbye to them. I also told her the world dud not revolve around her and it certainly did not come to a holt because she demanded it too!!!
Nothing like planning ahead!!! Making other people lives miserable because bm can't get there shit together.
Our latest is that bm is saying she needs "time off"!!! This woman has been on more holidays since May than anyone I know!!! She needs time! Yeah! Really!!!
BM says that she needs "ME
BM says that she needs "ME time" all the time. Excuse me, but she only has to parent 50% of the time. I would say that gives her plenty of ME TIME!!!
She has also said that she will only use her accumulated Paid Time Off to use for herself because she has "earned it" -- meaning, she will never take a day off to take care of a sick child.
That is why I blocked my ex
That is why I blocked my ex from texting me. She when on those stupid rampages almost every day. Now she has to leave voice mail on my cell. I love peace and not drama.