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BM has my blood boiling!

SteppingUp's picture

FDH is out of town this week for training for his new job. It's just me and my 4 month old baby. We had SS3 this past weekend like normal. We'd usually get SS3 and his older sister tonight, but since FDH is gone we're going to take them this weekend instead (normally wouldn't have them this wknd).

BM called FDH last night and asked him if I'd be willing to take them tonight like usual because she has something she wants to go to. Thankfully FDH flat out told her no and basically told her it's pretty rude to expect me to be a free babysitter for her when she knows I have a young infant all by myself all week to take care of. Okay that is part one of making my blood boil.

Part two: I checked out her Facebook today and this is her status posted last night: Wowww do I need a very very VERY needed vacation from lil people.. Particularly the 2 lil blondies I see very frequently who are always fighting. Errghhh!

A) Why the hell does she need a "vacation" from the kids she doesn't even have full-time!!??? I could UNDERSTAND if she had them for a week straight, looking forward to the break (we all do) but THREE night with her kids is too much to handle????
Dirol She has not even had them an extra DAY YET due to this change, and she needs a vacation from them???
C) She wants ME to be her frickin FREE babysitter so that SHE can have her vacation from her kids because she can't handle them??? And you KNOW if I'd agreed to it, she would still expect us to have them this weekend.
D) Oh, she's finally admitting that they are fighting. This has been an ongoing issue with us and daycare has been getting really frustrated with it and having to separate them sometimes for an entire day, but BM just says "Oh they're angels for me," with a you-must-be-doing-something-wrong attitude.

I am soooo soooo soooo on the verge of smucking her upside the head if I run into her at daycare today for even ASKING if I can take HER kids tonight. GRRRR

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Jsmom's picture

You need to print that Facebook page and start keeping them for future litigation. Trust me it sounds like it is coming. We print everything that SD15 posts that is questionable.

SteppingUp's picture

We do! Smile