I don't think people realize how hard it is on the nc parents when the other parent has pas'd them. It is a long road that they may never be able to return from.

I am happy to hear that your dh is on board with sending the kids home for their actions.

Her post said that ha when the BM died he dropped them off at grannies. HE decided to do that. It was the SM that wanted them to raise them. She didn't know thier behavior because he wanted nothing to do with them.

The sm did more then most of us here do. She actually wanted them there until she saw thier issues.