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Submitted by Stepmom09 on Wed, 08/26/2015 - 9:56am

This morning I set out to write down every time in the last week (yes you read that right week) that BM or creeper (my new name for her husband) have done or said something they shouldn't. I also documented every time creeper touched me at all in the last week. I was in the same room as him for maybe an hour.

SS recently informed me that BM with him in the car drives to our house to take pictures of what cars are there. We have a garage and park in there our neighbor parks half way in front of our house. Way to be a creeper (like your husband) and great job documenting when our neighbors are home.

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Submitted by Glassslipper on Wed, 08/26/2015 - 10:23am

OMG! my BM and her husband used to do the same thing!
Everytime she pulled in my driveway she would take photos of the cars there, and record the license plate numbers.
And we caught them on several occasions parking in front of our house at night and stalking us!
That's a crime you know! You can call the police and report that!

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Submitted by Stepmom09 on Wed, 08/26/2015 - 10:33am

I wave at her Smile lol we will be buying cameras for our house. But I honestly we are so freakin boring.

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Submitted by Glassslipper on Wed, 08/26/2015 - 10:49am

Well there is some great ones out there! We have 6 camera's with live feed, and plan to add the last two if BM ever starts up her antics on our property again.
You can watch the house on our cells, we also have hidden single shot camera's (like hunters use to monitor deer trails)
Ours have night vision too, and record, and the police can bring their thumb drive and we can download the footage of BM going bat shit crazy/stalking and breaking in to our property for them to watch. It has reduced the amount of crazy on our property.

Check them out, they are very user friendly!
http://www.firstalertstore.com/store/products/first-alert-smartbridge-dv...

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Submitted by Stepmom09 on Wed, 08/26/2015 - 11:34am

Thanks Smile

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Submitted by robin333 on Wed, 08/26/2015 - 12:18pm

There's a house near me that has a mannequin fully dressed (changed for the season) in the upstairs window. It is freaky, like evil clown freaky. Just a thought to ponder for you.

Your BM and creeper are crazy. Who was that much time?! I agree that cameras are a good idea. Start building a case for harassment or stalking. I'd be concerned that the weirdos were peeking through the windows when you weren't home.

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Submitted by Glassslipper on Wed, 08/26/2015 - 12:29pm

Agree with the building a case for stalking and harassment.
I used to think she was just insecure and laughed it off, but it ramped up and the kids were getting scared and once I was home sick from work, sleeping upstairs, when she broke into my house!

It is harassment and stalking and letting her get away with it will only open the gates to WORSE behavior!

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Submitted by twoviewpoints on Wed, 08/26/2015 - 10:39am

Why would you deliberately focus an entire hour of your day wasting energy and headspace on these people? For that, why do you even have so much contact with them?

These crazies are your DH's problem. You'll drive yourself insane if you spend your days worrying/focusing on every word and action two crazies say/do. I think I'd prefer focusing on ignoring their antics rather than entertaining them. Yeah, I know, easier said than done. However that's when you remove yourself from any personal contact and make DH deal with it all. They are his crazies. Communication should be email or text and exchanges should be quick and neutral. So why are you in the same area et alone same room with BM and/or Creeper?

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Submitted by Stepmom09 on Wed, 08/26/2015 - 10:43am

SS had school stuff and I had to drop stuff off. DH was working late. I have to document everything according to our lawyer mainly do to the fact that they accuse me of so much. It is all my fault all the time sometimes I legally can't do it but you better bet they will say I did it. Our lawyer told us to document ever detail.