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Visitation change....its better for ss but what about your family DH??????????????????

stepmom-at20's picture

Submitted by stepmom-at20 on Tue, 01/24/2012 - 8:50am

Ok so I haven't been on in a while alot has happened. I lost my job due to my pregnancy so im fighting that.I am currently 6months pregnant and really starting to feel tired all the time and getting annoyed more than usual about the smallest things.

So anyways Dh went to family court last week to re-visit the visitation we normally get ss6 eow but now we get him eow for a full weekend and the weekends in between we get him Friday after school till sat 2 o'clock. DH doesnt seem to see it the way i do.maybe im being selfish but is it to much to ask for a weekend with my husband without his crotch dropping around doesnt our son due in may not get weekends to bond with his dad as dad works long hours during the week and weekends are the only time he would get with the kids.
DH says he would be with our son during the week so ss gets his weekends this seems unfair. this means all our time needs to be worked around ss being here and the times he needs to be taken back to his mother.

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starfish's picture

Submitted by starfish on Tue, 01/24/2012 - 8:59am

total BULLSHIT if you ask me... WTF, every f'n w/e?? i would go crazy, but if you do you'll be the selfish bitch. how did bm work that so she always has a free friday night??? why not eow/e and one day during the week? it still sucks, but not every w/e is totally fucked.

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Submitted by dreamingofhappiness on Tue, 01/24/2012 - 9:07am

Sad reality of it all is, YES, your world now and will always revolve around the ignorance of the first children... And unfortunately, it will only get worse from here on out. And sadly, you are caught up in the middle of the BS the rest of us have to deal with... BM Drama

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Submitted by unsure99 on Tue, 01/24/2012 - 10:50am

We get the FSD two weekends a month but it is the only two weekends a month that FDH is off. So the weekends we don't get her, he has to work. It sucks!!! So when she comes she will make statements like well you are with him all the time (cue whiny baby voice)!! Yeah right, we are either working or asleep!!

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Tue, 01/24/2012 - 11:14am

UGH! I was with you until you used that nasty term. “crotch droppings”. I usually don’t agree with momof6, but I do on this one.

I would not want skid EVERY weekend either. But that it not the skids fault, that is DH, make him get a better schedule.

PS..If I ever heard my DH use that term about my kids, I would divorce his ass so quick it would make his head spin. What would you do, if you heard BM call YOUR kid a crotch dropping? I realize that this is a "vent site" but UGH, I just really hate those words!!