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Today's my birthday. Woopidy Doo!

stepmama2one's picture

On my bday I don't expect much. However, it's lovely that everything I do all year makes a bit of fucking difference and is definitely overlooked. Asked DH to to please take the trash out when I go work. Come home, it's not done. Come home to a sink full of dishes, food all over the kitchen, load of laundry in the dryer, mess in the living room. Would of been nice of someone to show some appreciatiin. So now I'm doing all that after working an 8 hour shift. Oh and SD is so far up BM's add that even though she has been online all day I haven't heard a peep from her. Shitty ass bday today.

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JEEMudder's picture

My birthdays are similar... and mother days. https://www.steptalk.org/node/176551
This year I packed a bag, took the day off work and told my husband I would be back in 24 hours, don't burn the house down. If they aren't going to appreciate me I will appreciate myself.
I am sorry your people are being shitty.
Happy birthday. I hope you find some way to appreciate how fantastic you are.

stepmama2one's picture

Oh my goodness! Thank you all for your replies. You just turned this crappy day into an awesome one. You all are great!

Luckyone's picture

I seriously would leave all that crap undone and walk out. Go to a movie, a nice dinner, something just for you.

I get so pissed off when I get ignored like that I would probably dump the trash in the driveway. But don't do that.

momjeans's picture

Happy birthday!

I agree with everyone else. Drop what you're doing, grab your keys, get out of the house ASAP. Treat yourself to a few or more of your favorite things. You deserve it.