Hi everyone, been a long time since I posted, but I keep up on the site just have not had much to post about. It has come to our attention that there is someone who BM used to spend time with, but no longer does and has called BM a bad person and a bad mom, who I found on social media. Knowing this and seeing that this person is no longer friends with BM on any social media, would you message the person to ask them to elaborate and see what you could find out? I am torn about doing it. I partly want to bring it up to my DH and then the other part of me wants to make an account with a vague name just asking the guy why he said what he said. My worry is it would be obvious that it is my DH inquiring, but if this guy really doesn't associate with BM anymore, does it matter?

Deep down I think it is a bad idea, but that does not change the temptation that is there.