So bacon got some news today. Her friend that DH was going to allow to stay over the week of spring break can not come down. It is for the best and hurts my feelings none!!! The little brat deserves to have no friends over ever let a lone a full week. but yay!!! Also the disengaging is going well! She saw me giggle a little when Dh got her that if she didnt do the dishes she would not only have no electronics but no friends till the end of school. Granted that was a blind threat and he would have caved in like 2 days... but she wasnt 100% sure of that! Too funny the look on her face when i didnt just say Ill just do them (dishes) Let her do to bed. Sweet satisfaction!