SS14 has to do a mandatory presentation for Arts and Letters day at school next Friday - BM's EOWe visitation day. DH sent her a text letting her know, ensuring she saw the note in the teacher's email. No response.

SS was supposed to mention it to her last night during his call. But he didn't.

I asked DH if SS spoke with BM and DH said, "no he forgot. Don't you realize that he already knows she won't take him so he is not going to bother asking".

Oh well.

In similar news, DH and I were "considering" moving into a home I own that is about 10 miles from BM. DH asked SS, "wouldn't you like to be closer to your mom? You can see her more and spend an extra night or two at her house each week?"

SS said, "uh... no"

End of story.

DH couldn't help but remind him of the big dramatic night where BM and SS held each other tight, crying and saying, "we just want to spend more time together." This was exactly one year ago (when BM found out we were expecting and she told SS that his father would not love him as much once the baby came).

Oh how the seasons change...