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Starstruck724's picture

Paperwork states upon school return there is no school today. Where we live the roads aren't well maintained and at times we have to deal with that. Kids BM doesn't have a vehicle fit to drive to our home during the winter so we gladly deliver her home if the conditions are bad so the roads are bad today, she was suppose to be dropped by 8am to catch the bus, school is closed and the roads are bad so we are choosing to wait until they clear up a bit so she can be returned home safely! bm as usual is bitching... And the best part is she tries to act as if we are the issue in the situation. It's so frustrating dealing with a mentally unstable person who lives in their own world. Most the time we just ignore her because it's not even worth it to try to communicate with her. I am so over the bs! My sd doesn't want to leave she asked to stay one more day and considering her BM is being a cunt I feel like we should tell her to shove it, schools back in session tomorrow we will drop her off there. I am so sick and tired of the nonsense! BM needs to get the fuck over whatever it is that hasn't passed in the last 7 years and move on with her life. I have tried and tried with this idiot for the last 4 years. We are going on 6 years together my DH and I, I disengaged after issues with DH and I, after that I have not been involved outside of sharing my opinion when he asks and caring for the kids when they are with us. I am lucky to have two great skids that love me as I love them and can see through their idiot BM's manipulations and lies. So what would you do??? Drop her off today and just ignore her nonsense or keep her and drop her at school tomorrow??

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WifeVersion2.0's picture

I'd suggest DH send one e-mail or text letting BM know since school doesn't resume until tomorrow, SD will be staying the evening with him and will be delivered safely to school when it resumes. Then I would put BM on ignore and enjoy the extra time.

Glassslipper's picture

It says "upon return to school" That is now officially tomorrow due to weather! Let BM call the police and file a report, or call the court or lawyer and file a complaint. The court order states upon return to school, which is tomorrow!

PLUS (we also live where weather is bad in the winter) My lawyer has said if the weather is bad and you can't travel safely with the kids...DON'T! If ex/bm complains, he/she can either 1) come get them himself or 2) tell the judge you wouldn't risk your life and your children's life??? He/She will look like an idiot for even asking you to put your children at risk in bad weather.

Stay home, keep the kid, she is screaming just to scream! Let her scream...