However, nothing changed on the homefront, obviously SS17 pulling more crap because he figures I'm leaving as everyone could tell by my earlier blog, I locked him out. AND, of course DH still says he won't go.

So, for the second time in our marriage, he has chose to be here with EW & Kids and uses that as an excuse not to go with me. Then, he tries to use my children as a tool and says well, what if they told you that you had to leave your kids for 4 years... Uh hum, I already did that remember... I left my daughter with my mother and even had to go to court and spend close to 40,000 to get her back! I did it because I had to and knew that we would all be better because of it. But, he conveniently forgets that fact.

Well, when he's lonely and starts calling me, I'll tell him, he made his choice, now he can sleep in the empty bed or move back in with his EW for all I care then he can really be close to the kids.