So, I was with SD all day Saturday because FH had to work all day, which was fine with me. I took her shopping and to get her nails done. Her bangs are too long, they are all in her eyes, so I thought hmm, maybe I should ask BM if I can take her to get her bangs trimmed. FH and BM had a huge fight a few weeks ago because BM wanted to cut SD's hair real short. She has real long pretty hair. So anyway.. I thought, it would be best to ask first. So I texted her about it. She politely said NO, please dont. Honestly, shes the BM so I cant second guess her or even ask why. However, without realizing it, I started to cry. I guess its just a realization that I have limits, and frustrated because I still dont know what they are. We were just having a good day together, shopping, lunch, nails, bonding...Its hard to explain just how I felt. Later that day I told FH what happened and he got really mad at BM and they had a big fight... UGH, I dont want to cause problems.

So then Sunday night came and we had to drop SD off at BM's. I always stay in the car, but BM was outside. I felt super uncomfortable as I had to sit there in the car and listen to them arguing about the custody schedule. Then of course FH has to bring up the hair cut as we were driving off. I hate being in these situations!!