ok, so as much as i try and try and try I'M EXPLODING EHRE and the pot just keeps boiling so i'm exploding on here. the first thing skids said was that it's dad's fault the divorce happened uh, TWO names are on that marriage license, and MOM cheated on dad in their own home! THEN bm told them since i'm such a good mom they can come live with us-please do, then SHE can pay cs instead of him-they made a "smom is doing this for ssister, and she's younger than us" comment! She makes plans on HIS time, knowing he'll agree to it so they don't get mad at HIM for it, she had BOTH christmas and thanksgiving, and knowingly received alimony while living with another man. :sick: she is a sorry excuse for a mom...they are no more than a paycheck to her, she actually asked my mil if she would take custody of the oldest because she just couldn't take care of her....damn that didn't get documented! :sick:

i cannot WAIT until tables are turned and SHE has to BEG THEM for attention to her. 1 is almost 15 and doesn't know a break pedal to a gas pedal and sriously, the first time i asked her to clean the bathroom, the kid was using SHAMPOO when i went to check on her! i walked in and laughed, told her that's cute, now clean the bathroom, she said "i am" and looked at me like really....what are you laughing about...i asked ru serious? she said i am...so i had to show a THIRTEEN year old how to clean a bathroom, (seriously) mop a floor and ready for this??? DUST! AND i had to show them how to measure the soap for laundry...and they STILL don't know how to mow!!! =we're working on that one.

my ex is a low life, living off mom and dad (mainly mom cause dad got tired of it-they are too divorced, after the kids were grown), house is in his mom's name, he doesn't see our daughter like he should and doesn't pay child support MOM pays his rent MOM pays any out of pocket distributions he has to make to me and IF i ask HER for help, after agreeing and helping (like buying supplies for a sporting activity) i need to give him credit for what they spent so he doesn't have to pay me the day care expenses.........WHATEVER!!! that should've been discussed A LONG TIME AGO. he braggs about what he got her for christmas when he KNOWS the only reason my daughter got ANYTHING from me because i just couldn't afford presents this year (everything was things she can use that i don't ne more) and yet knowing it's RIGHT doesn't pay me a lick of cs...i have to BEG him for 20 a month just to get to and from work sometimes and he knows it's all i can do to keep a roof over our heads and keep her fed.....CANT WAIT TIL HE GETS HIS PAPERS IN THE MAIL THAT HE HAS COURT SOON!!!! and can't wait til he tells me his wife left him and has filed for a divorce because i'm trying to make her do something she didn't want to do (hopeful assumption here), or my daughter is no longer allowed around her....can't wait til my daughter gets the nerve to tell her dad to grow up and act like a dad! (she REALLY wants to) cause it's coming!!! Cant' wait til the couselor my daughter is seeing tells her dad, that i am right, his fighting with ex is SERIOUSly stressing his daughter out, and she HAS testified that she no longer wants all the visitation he's been granted if he cannot change his home life at least while she is there or his rights are GONE!

i feel a LITTLE better