ok so christmas day when my dh went to get my skids for Christmas, my daughter decided to talk to me about a problem. She did not have a good christmas at her daddy's (his families-yes but not with dad and smom) poor thing is confiding in me that she only wants every other weekend with her dad because every time she's there for more than a day or two they ALWAYS wind up in a fight-it used to be BAD.....to the point i called DHS on them to get them to stop, it slowed and has got better, but still has not stopped, i understand no relationship is perfect, but it's uncalled for, they are fighting over whether or not smom will go to his side of the family's christmas or not, dad cusses me and his wife out in front of my daughter sometimes and he blows up in front of my daughter to his wife but behind wife's back....i've told him bout this, and he still refuses to listen to me and my EIGHT year old daughter is not comfortable talking to him because she always gets in trouble-and shouldn't HAVE to. she just wishes they would get a divorce and tired of being caught in the middle, doesn't want to testify the visitation that she wants because she doesnt' want to break her dad's heart but she's tired of going over there because of the constant fighting

makes me so sick and my hands are tied for the moment..........hopfully i'll get him ordered only supervised visitation to get her out of this.