My ex is such a liar

My BD7 called me on Sunday stating she wanted to come home now and she was sick. BF has her until 6pm and it was only noon and he lives over an hour away. BD was sad and upset and said she did not feel well. I told her daddy could bring her home because I was not home to meet him but her sister 12 was home to recieve her. My ex called back and asked what BD's problem was and that she said I said he could bring her home if he wanted to. Anyway, it seems my BD7 was upset cause her friend from upstairs - he lives in a duplex - had to go to church. My ex did not know how I felt about our BF going to church. YEAH RIGHT - she goes to religion classes every Wednesday and he knows it. My ex had the balls to say he was a little over protective of our BD since he does not have her that much. WTF! BD7 has told me on many occations that she spent the night at her dad's friends house while dad when home to sleep. Recently, BD went to a slumber party with her dad's neighbor girl. The birthday girl, whom my daughter does not even know, is 1 to 2 years older than my daughter and my daughter said they watched scary movies and the older girls told her there is a boogie man. I asked BD7 how she got to the slumber party and she said her friend's grandma. Yet, another person neither me or my daughter know. This was also one of many weekends BD only spent 1 night out of 2 with her dad because he had to work. So BD7 really didn't spend anytime with her father.

Over-protective, my aunt fanny. Liar, liar, pants on fire.

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What an idiot!!

You know what really urks me about these fairy non Custodial mummy and daddy's? Why do they even see the kids if they aren't going to spend anytime with them. Would you have your Bio child only one weekend a fortnight/month whatever and then leave them with someone else??

My god I would die if I had to go 12 days without my kids! If me and DH go away for a night from our BS2, I call 3 times a day, dream about him and miss him to death. We went away for a 7 day honeymoon and came home after 3 days, got all 3 kids and went back again...LOL...Bubba was only 8 months old then, thats my excuse..LOL

DH misses SS after a week and can't wait for him to get here, we only ever leave SS when we have to like for a wedding or something or we change weekends. I know some things can't be avoided, but you only have the kid for 4 days a month, wouldn't you want to actually SPEND it with them??

But hey, Our CUSTODIAL BM has SS 12 days a fortnight and still never spends anytime with him!!

Catch xx
*Mean People Suck*

we are dealing with a

we are dealing with a similar BM. she would always rather ship them off for a "playdate", to a grandparents' house, and sign them up for activities than spend time with them. It makes me ill, especially when their dad wants to pick them up a little early and she says no, only to make them stay at day care longer. Very aggravating.

"it's tough trying to

"it's tough trying to balance "Our Time" vs. "Kid's Time". The Kids want to go do Kid Stuff, with the other Kids,Freinds, or even alone, and We want to spend time Doing Stuff WITH Them..."

I can imagine - I only wish we had that problem - my 2 skids are such attention vampires (to steal Ms. Cruella's phrase) and approval junkies that we have to practically force them out of our sight sometimes. If it were reasonable that the kids really wanted to do all that stuff, that's one thing, but for us, it's definitely BM pushing it on them.

Please don't put this out of Perspective....

This isn't about not spending the weekend WITH them, as in, in their pocket doing puzzles, wrestling, going to the park, playing footy. It isn't reasonable to think that we can all spend every minute or even every second minute doing KID stuff...hey DH and I work hard all week long and just the drive to pick up SS (45 min each way straight through the heart of the city) is enough to make us groan "I don't wanna!!)and some weekends the thought of packing up the kids and going to the beach would kill us, we adults need time too, even if it is SS's weekend.

Some weekends we don't see SS much while he's here as he is on the computer, going to the skate park or watching Tv or reading a book...and thats OK, but we are here, to have dinner with him, get him lunch, hear about the new book he's reading, say g'nite.. This for me is about people who see their kids 4 days a month and then palm them off to a babysitter every bloody fortnight or to granny's for the whle weekend, in my case BM just leaves him at home 11 days out of the 12 she has him.

Everyone has a schedule, everyone has kids who do different things, we have a 15 year old who works, plays footy, and has mates he's out with all the time, and we have to juggle those things, but BS15 is my son and if it doesn't work in with the routines, then DH stays with his kid, I go to footy with mine and BS2 chooses where he wants to go between the 2...we balance, but not at the expense of palming off my hubby's kid.

And as for Silversthings drama with BM...I know what you mean!! My DH will ask to have SS 2 w/e in a row and if BM feels like pissing off DH she will say, no we have plans..DH calls over the w/e and asks SS hows things he says BORED BORED BORED, he's been on his own all weekend, she's been "out" so why was it he couldn't come over again??? Crazy isn't it?? Does DH suffer, or her own flesh and blood?...I'll never figure it out