When skids try to interfere
SS14 has lately been showing signs of trying to interfere in our relationship. The 3 most recent ones being:
1. Last week, SS says "I bet you don't know Daddy's FB password". I said "of course I do, and he knows mine" and he goes "Daddy doesn't have a facebook anymore, haha!" I said, " right, but when he did, I had it".
2. This past weekend, SO went out with his friend to a club. SS was here for the weekend since SO begged him to adhere to the EOW schedule even though he has primary custody and SS goes "I bet you don't know where Daddy went". I said "of course I do" and he says "so where did he go?" I said "why don't you ask him?" and he then goes on to ask "well what if daddy liked going out and started going out all the time?" I said, "What would he expect me to be doing?" He says "take care of us". I just started laughing.
3. I worked Saturday so SO took SS bike riding. Yesterday, SO says "I wish we could go bike riding today", SS says "let's go". SO says "how will we go? We have 2 bikes and SM is here too", SS says "OH, I thought it would just be me and you" and SO laughs and says "too bad". I said "when I'm home, plans are not just about you and Daddy, they include me too". I wanted to say "dumbass!" at the end but of course, I refrained.
I wish he'd just stay with his mom for the weekend. Even though SO begs him to come, and we relatively have time to spend together during the day, I still don't want one skid over on the weekend. If it's both of them, fine because they keep each other company. But when it's just one, they need all the effing attention in the world! I don't want them lounging around me, in my room, talking about shit I don't care about! SS14 only ever talks about how he's the best at everything physical (sports). I can't stand it.
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Sounds like he feels very
Sounds like he feels very insecure about his relationship with his Dad.
What a brat. Just keep
What a brat. Just keep laughing it off, hopefully it will become tiring to him and he'll stop coz he's not getting the reaction he's after...