why so many of us do not like our BM's. Maybe this has been said before and I missed it, if it has I apologize for repeating it. But maybe we don't get along with the BM's because our DH's married the opposite kind of person the next time around (thinking they weren't going to make THAT mistake again). Because our BM is the exact opposite of me and I cannot understand where she is coming from 99.9% of the time. And I'm sure it's the same with her, she doesn't understand me either. Just thinking out loud.