I don't have as much time to spend on this right now as I would like, but I just found this site, and I think it will help me a lot.

Quick breakdown of the family, as it were.

Me: 27 year old woman -- no biological children of my own
Him: 37 year old male
We are not married, nor engaged, but we know that is where we are going. It has been discussed.

BM1 (I assume BM is BiologicalMom?): 36 (I think) year old woman. His ex-wife. They have a daughter (soon to be 17) together. Daughter is trans, so I will in fact be referring to her as he, and as SS1 (step-son, right?).

BM2: Not sure her age, around his age though. She had SS2 (recently turned 14) before He and her got together. SS2's dad was never in the picture, so He is officially the dad, though not biologically speaking. They had SS3 (just turned 10) together, and split when SS3 was about 3 or 4, I think. Not sure exactly.

In the shortest form possible, that is us. I would love to have a place to write everything down to vent, and hopefully get feedback from. I'm leaning towards having separate posts for discussing (initially) each member and introducing, so to speak, instead of a long drawn out post--although I am afraid of lacking continuity if I don't do it together. I'm not sure. =-s

Really needing support, as this is all frightening and confusing, my best friend doesn't live near me anymore, and my adoptive(not really adoptive but chosen because she's awesome) mom just moved out of province, so I'm lacking people to talk to/with.