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Submitted by smneedshelp on Tue, 05/28/2013 - 11:05am

Based on nearly 10 years with my husband, I can't stand being around his adult daughter. I never know whether she will be in a good mood, which can change in a flash. She frequently ruins gatherings with her laziness, rudeness and immaturity. We will be vacationing together soon and I feel my mood souring just thinking about being around her. Need help fast!

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oldone's picture

Submitted by oldone on Tue, 05/28/2013 - 11:20am

Why?

Why are you vacationing with her? Why do you spend any time with her? Why do you even see her?

She's an adult. You need not spend any time with her at all. This isn't a minor with custody. Toxic people should always be avoided.

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Submitted by Hanny on Tue, 05/28/2013 - 11:25am

Agree with oldone, why are you even going along? If your DH wants to take his princess on a vacation, let them go together...I wouldn't go. My SO suggested to me a couple of weeks ago, that maybe next year we go to Hawaii and take his 2 girls and my daughter. First of all, these girls don't even know each other, and the only couple of times they've been together, his girls were very rude to my daughter. And secondly, I do not want to go on a stressful vacation. Why put ourselves through it, before I would do this (as much as I want to go to Hawaii) I would stay home by myself before I'd put myself through this.

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Submitted by momof5_1969 on Tue, 05/28/2013 - 11:29am

All our skids are out now -- SD18, BD19, SS20,SS22, and SD23 -- and my DH suggested we do a family vacation -- camping (which means I'm doing all the work!) -- been there, done that. I said "No way Jose"! Not happening -- I'd rather chew glass! :sick:

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Submitted by hereiam on Tue, 05/28/2013 - 11:35am

Couldn't pay me enough to go on vacation with my SD. Not when she was young and not now.

I doubt my DH would ever suggest it, but if he did, I would tell him, "Not a chance in hell."

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Submitted by tryingmom on Tue, 05/28/2013 - 1:46pm

I just spent a long 3 day weekend with skids, I'd say no. :sick: Too much drama and attempts at being the center of attention. For the record, DH and I have never taken a vacation with my BS27 either.