this post may be all over the place but I don't feel like breaking it up in to more posts.

Name Game:
I guess I shouldn't have told FDH but I did. The other day SS4 came running out of the his bedroom with a toy that was 'broken' and he said "Mommy fix it." I paused but didn't feel like dealing with it as I fixed it and sent him on his way. FDH and I don't 'endorse' the boys calling me 'mom' but BM forces them to call her hubby 'dad' so I knew that it was only and matter of time before ss4 got confused. Of course FDH is on cloud nine about it and I finally had to tell him that we are still not endorsing it - in fact it's a little insulting, my kids hopefully won't act like those kids do.

Tired and lazy:
We made plans to take SKids snowmobiling with our parents this past weekend. We were really excited about it and SS4 loves to go, but Friday night SS6 was whining that he didn't want to go he wanted to stay home. He had been home all week! It's annoying how lazy he has become so we went any way and he had a good time but it made him really tired, which then makes him whining and rude. SS4 was tired too but he hung in there. It's getting hard to deal with them not wanted to do anything but stay home and play game - but I don't feel bad about pushing them because EOW they get to do nothing

It doesn't affect me:
After getting tired and whiny SS6 started in on the "when are we going to mom's?" "I want to go to mom's" "I have new games at Mom's" blah blah blah. I finally snapped at told him to be quiet and that it didn't involve me what he does/has at his mom's house so stop telling me and he wasn't going until 5pm. FDH explained to him that what happens at mom's should stay there. Ugh I am sure that is normal and I think BM pimps him about what we do/have. But I just don't care.

That Seriously happened:
So FDH found out that he is going to be really busy this week and can't make it to SS4 doc appt. after all. And BM asked him Sunday and he told him he couldn't she rolled her eyes and gave him a dirty look - but last year she couldn't go to the SAME appt and FDH went alone. It;s her week any way! FDH is going to call the doc though and tell him that he isn't coming and request a copy of the notes and to be called if they have an question about what goes on at our house, it's for SS4's Autism. I am a little excited because when FDH took ss4 last year - by himself- the appointment went great and the doc made notes about stuff that FDH said about BM's weeks/the exchange process. BM was pissed because the doc implied in the report that she may be lying about stuff. So if the appt goes bad I hope that gets written down as well. BM just can't control SS4 like FDH can or calm him like he can. Either that or she was REALLY looking forward to riding down with him - lol - not that it was going to happen.

BM has money again?:
FDH said that BM just put carpet in her house. When he dropped the sKids off they ran in and before she could stop them they were on the new carpet in their boots. He think that they are trying to patch the house so they can sell it, BM usually doesn't stay in a house for more than 2 or 3 years. I think it's funny because she clams to not have any money but she can get carpet? And if she does sell her house she is going to take a real hit on it, that market sucks.

I feel better already.