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Email to BF

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This weekend was BF's birthday. We had a great time despite BM texting him and leaving a B-day present using kids as an excuse. Needles to say I was upset. She tries all the time to come between BF and I. She is sneeky and uses the kids at every opportunity. I am so tired of it. So here is an email to BF I sent him. Your advice is greatly apprciated.

Sneeky BM

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It's a three day weekend. BM tells daughters to ride their bikes to her house to feed her dogs without consulting my BF. I am so ANGRY... Texted the BM to back off, she is on MY TIME and to take care of her own dogs. My BF knows about this and gave okay for me to text. We thought maybe if I text her to back off (since I have not said anything before) BM would stop. BM text my BF asking if I knew I was textin her. He gave phone to me to answer. I said who I was and yes he is aware. I would not hide anything from my BF and to text me and take care of her own dogs.

When does it stop?

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When does it stop? When will my BF's EX stop asking for favors, especially when it's her visitation week? Is she stupid or really useless? Now she has the girls doing the asking for her? UGH!!! He will tell his daughters "No" but will text/email his EX she is to stop asking for favors. She acts like they are still married and she can ask for things and uses the girls has an excuse. She is so annoying. I really HATE this woman. She creates so much trouble or at least tries. We do not let her, it just gets so tiring.

Always Rude To Me

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UGH!!!! I am so tired of my BF's teen daughter being rude to me. She is not hiding it now anymore. Her dad sees it and says he will talk to her. Well he has been talking to her all the time and there is still no change. She is a mini of her mother. My BF's EX is mean, rude, always threatening my BF with cs, munipulative and has issues (mental ones). This teen girl is rude even in my own home to me. Today is the last straw. I told my BF I would be very happy if she went to live with her mother.

Is it worth it? I don't know?

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I am a widow dating a divorced man who has two teenagers. He has 50/50 custody with his ex. His EX has made it a point to make the kids dislike me. Fortunately my boyfriend sees this. I am a good person and have tried to read/research on how to get along with his children as he has also. I, myself, have kids with only one under the age of 18yrs. The rest are grown and in college. My kids accept him in my life. They see we are good together and love one another. His family all like me and also accepts me. The only ones that do not are his two kids.