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Biomom cuts out Biodad head from photo and sticks her boyfriends head instead.

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Submitted by Shar on Fri, 12/08/2006 - 6:08pm

I felt so bad for my boyfriend when his 9 year old son, told him that his mom cut his dads head out of their family picture (it was a picture of just him and two sons recently taken) and replaced it with her boyfriends head....and stuck it on the fridge for all to see...what kind of person would do this? and biomoms boyfriend thought it was funny as well...we explained to my boyfriends son, this wasnt funny at all, and how would he feel if we cut his head out of our family picture and replaced it with another child...we tried not to be-little him for thinking it was funny, because we know its not his fault, his mother is who she is and will continue to act immature............he got the picture anyway...no pun intended....biomom she is a piece of work! I am glad I can hit the ignore button sometimes....I really don't know how biodad stays so calm....

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Submitted by hopeful on Sat, 12/09/2006 - 12:34am

That is definitely a very immature and odd thing to do! Sad that the kids had to see this too.

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Submitted by Anne 8102 on Sat, 12/09/2006 - 6:18am

Oh, how juvenile is this?! I mean, it's one thing to fantasize about your ex dropping off the face of the earth and another thing entirely to display your hostility to your children who are supposed to learn about life, love and building relationships from you.

~ Anne ~

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Submitted by Nise on Sat, 12/09/2006 - 9:12pm

Case in Point...it is hard to come on here and talk about how GREAT biomom is (not all biomom's just the ones we deal with) when this is the kind of CRAP you have to deal with, no?

Make a GREAT Day!

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Submitted by Candice on Sun, 12/10/2006 - 7:04pm

You guys didn't be-little ss, but bm did. Whenever you vocalize disparaging remarks or actions about one parent to a child, you are be-littling that child. Your ss is 1/2 of his father and 1/2 of his mother, so for her to criticize this man to her son is really terrible.

She probably is too immature to realize this, but she is making her own son feel bad for who his father is, but she also is criticizing her own choices about who she had a child with.

One day she is going to wreak havoc for this, and it will be between her relationship with her son. He will one day resent his mother for doing this to him, and I pitty her when that happens. Too bad she can't have enough love in her heart for her own child to just let him be a kid, and not the innocent bystander that divorce tramples on.

In the midst of fighting over ss with dh's ex...I would never allow anyone to make one negative remark about bm in the presence of ss, and if dh and I had to discuss something, we went to the garage and discussed it. We NEVER made disparaging remarks about her to ss...we couldn't possibly want to ruin his childhood for who his mother is/was.

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Submitted by septembers_child on Tue, 03/20/2007 - 7:34am

Boy she sounds like a real loop job..I feel sorry for the kids..

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Submitted by Daddysgirl on Tue, 03/20/2007 - 12:32pm

After going to BM's house to help her with SS when he was extremely constipated and would not take a crap at her house.... I realized that she still has pictures of her and DH on her shelves... one of her sitting in his lap...so me being me- wanted to know if they have always been there, or if she dug them out of a box and displayed them knowing I was coming over... so I moved one to see if there the dust was UNDER or AROUND it... (not the best housekeeper, BM) It has very obviously been there for some time... and her boyfriend just recently moved out... gee wonder if it had anything to do with the picture of her hanging on her ex husband.. that was taken when they were about 14 years old. I am all for holding on to a few pictures, so the kids can see what their parents were like... but for goodness sake, put them in a box somewhere. Don't display them for the whole world to see. That is STRANGE. I wish she would at least cut his head out and put someone else's.