Let me start as to say BM has it in the CO that sexy baby can not be the designate competent adult unless both parties agree. That being said, this past week was my DH time with him and he missed about 6 days because my SS4 ( 5 at end of this month) said he didn't want to go. Anyways BM had some voucher to get free shoes so BM ask for us to drop SS4 off so BM can do that and DH said "I can't I will be asleep but my wife can" BM through a fit so then BM called that day at 10pm it just so happens I was at my DH's work so DH told her that I can drop him off even though she does not like it BM said okay. Next day BM had to drop off SS4 because it was still my DH's time with SS4 so the person she had to see was me. Then just yesterday BM was giving SS4 a birthday party and invited us to go at her apartment for the party and have pizza,watch a movie and sing happy birthday. DH was what you are crazy that we would go to especially at your apartment maybe at a public place. We are so not there to be that civil to each other(BM has a boyfriend/fiance) all four of in the same place to weird right now for us.