New to this site, but wanted to get other's opinions on this matter. I married my DH almost a year ago knowing he had a 5 year old son. I have an 11 year old daughter from a previous marriage. My DH didnt find out about his son until he was almost 3, and is now paying ungodly amounts of CS. His BM is complete trash, and my SS is ALWAYS sick with anything from colds to head lice for 7 months.I am extremely clean and organized and i dont want to have to clean my house because of exposure.